Counseling vs. religion

Q: I am in a college program to become a counselor.  I am a Christian.  My supervisor is discouraging me from letting my clients know that I am a Christian and a born-again believer.  I think I should let this be known, even though I will not try to convert my clients unless they are open to it.  I would like to know what you think.  Q.E.

A:  Have you considered becoming a Christian counselor?  Perhaps this would be a better choice for you.  It would eliminate the conflict between your belief system and the necessity to remain neutral so that your clients can freely explore the issues they bring to you.

The therapeutic alliance requires trust on the part of the client, and acceptance of the client, on the part of the therapist.  If a client does not resonate with your belief system, he or she is likely to be intimidated by your disclosure.  Your acceptance of them will be questioned (whether or not it is stated), and their trust in you will be limited.  What is a precious faith to you is likely to come across as judgment to those who do not already share the same faith.

I strongly urge you to talk with your supervisor about getting into a field of counseling where you can be open about your Christian beliefs, and where the clients who come to you for help will be on the same page from the beginning.  I wish you the best.